Family Systems’ Theory could help or possibly save your marriage. First, we will share several blogs on the triangle, followed by Murray Bowen’s other concepts. Triangles are an easy way to understand couple and family dynamic. There is only one positive triangle and numerous negative triangles. Today I will talk about the positive triangle and later we will discuss the other triangles that can be problematic triangles. If you are a Christian, God is the third person in your triangle. The triangle has three points. The husband, the wife and in this case, God is the third point of the triangle. This is positive, because God is a resource for the couple.
At the end of the marriage ceremony the minister says, “That which God has joined together, let no man put asunder.” The couple should seek God before committing to each other, God is part of the marriage ceremony and God remains with the couple as a resource and a Guide. Couples should learn to consult with God before making major decisions.
There is an old saying, “The family or couple that prays together stays together.” Here are 5 scriptures that could guide you on your journey.
1. "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."- 1 Peter 4:8
Talk about a meaningful relationship tonight
2. "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." - Ecclesiastes 4:12
Talk about your relationship w/God or Higher.
3. "Be completely humble and gentle; Be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace."- Ephesians 4:2
Talk about how a peaceful temperament helps relationship.
4. "For I know the plans I have for you, 'Declare The Lord,' plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."- Jeremiah 29:11
Consider short range and long range plans/goals
5. "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."- Mark 10:9
Discuss divorce not being an option
The positive triangle should be with us from the beginning of the relationship to the end. Consult God and God will turn your sadness into happiness, you hurt into joy and your anger into contentment. As a couple adopt this motto, “Try God.”
QUESTION:
What thoughts come to mind after reading this blog? Please respond.
In what ways does God strengthen your relationship?
How could you include God as an integral part of your relationship?
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